Kelly KleinNow for something fun. You’d be surprised at how little people know themselves. With this blog post, I’m giving you an activity to get to know yourself better.
Knowing who you are will make your life better. The reason why so many potential relationships fail is because people are broken, yet still trying to date. Healing requires a little bit of isolation and most people haven’t conquered the battle of being alone.
Questions to Get to Know Who You Are
- What are my core values and beliefs?
- What are my biggest strengths?
- What are my biggest weaknesses?
- What activities do I enjoy doing most?
- What triggers my stress or anger?
- What are my biggest fears?
- What are my favourites (in any category)?
- What are my emotional triggers?
- What do I want to achieve in life?
- What are my goals?
- What am I ashamed of?
- What do I believe in?
- If I could have one wish, what would it be?
- What would I do if I wasn’t afraid?
- What were my biggest accomplishments?
- What were my biggest failures? What did I learn from them?
- Am I an introvert or an extrovert?
- What am I passionate about?
- What is my happiest memory?
- What are my dreams?
- What is my favourite book? Movie? Band? Food? Colour? Animal?
- When I’m feeling down, what do I like to do?
- How do I relax?
- What qualities in others do I enjoy being around?
- When, where, and doing what do I feel most like myself?
- What are my motivations for the decisions I make?
- What qualities or characteristics do I have? Which of these are uniquely me?
More Ways to Get to Know Who You Are
- Journal about your thoughts and feelings
- Step outside your comfort zone and try new experiences
- Think about your happiest memories
- Picture your ideal life
- Spend time in solitude and self-reflection
- Set goals
- Work on being your best self every day
- Take personality tests
- Learn about your personality traits
- Channel your inner child
Getting to know yourself is a lifelong journey. Constantly be asking yourself questions. Always try new things. As you get to know yourself, you will also notice that you change along the way. You grow into the person you have the potential to become.
Also, I suggest you get to know yourself before getting into a romantic relationship, because then you’ll not only know who you are, but who would be right for you. You would attract the right person because you’re comfortable with yourself and not being someone you’re not.
Be awesome and may your life be passionate!
