Kelly KleinI learned a lot of lessons this year…it seems like this year has been the craziest of all my 44 years on this planet.
Love
The greatest lesson I have learned was about love. I learned how to love, and that I’m not unlovable. There is someone out there for everyone. After years of being treated like I’m nothing and almost giving up on love, I found my soulmate. I am learning what a real relationship is like. And I couldn’t be happier.
Strength
We are all stronger than we think. It takes the bad times for our strength to truly show. You’re not strong until you go through the hard times.
Perseverance
I learned to keep pushing through the obstacles, no matter what. At first I thought I was just a glutton for punishment, but I realize that I was holding on to the end. I wasn’t giving up.
Focus
I learned to focus on one thing without distraction. The more I focus, the further ahead I get. If you focus, you are more likely to be successful in whatever you are focusing on.
Boundaries
I learned to set boundaries…especially when being criticized. I couldn’t allow the negativity to get me down. I was accused of ‘ghosting’…but I was doing what was right for me. The only people who have problems with you setting boundaries are the ones who crossed your boundaries.
Positivity
I learned to be positive wherever I go, despite what I’m going through. I smile through the tears.
Compassion
The people I meet every day don’t know what I’m going through. They don’t know the tough times I’ve had. It made me realize I don’t know what they’re going through either. So if someone gets snarky with me, I don’t take it personally. I understand they may be fighting an invisible battle.
Confidence
I learned that I can be confident, and that it can grow over time, if I do the work. It’s a long process, but I will get there.
Sacrifice
With all good things come sacrifices. I had to sacrifice a lot to get back on my feet. I don’t feel comfortable revealing all my sacrifices yet publicly, but there are more involved than anyone realizes. I had to give up a few things – some temporarily – in order to move forward.
Comfort Zone
At the end of the life, you will regret the things you didn’t do more than the things you did. I learned that leaving the comfort zone is where the magic happens.
Life is a roller coaster. There are ups and downs. So buckle up and enjoy the ride! Be awesome and may your life be passionate!
